Days 10-14:
These days are more of the same. Healing every
day. I had a long drive home. It is just under 2 hours from TJ to my
home. I took pain killers for the ride. I pretty much slept the whole
way home. When I got home, I was tired and pretty much slept for the
first 2 days home. I still had the feeling like my guts were going to
fall out without my band on. I was monitoring how much drainage was
coming from my tubes. Getting up out of my bed is difficult. I don't
have an electric hospital bed, but my husband has been wonderful with
helping my get in and out of bed (both naps and in the middle of the
night) I have been walking around my home, and I even ventured out to
the hair salon to get my hair washed. On Sunday, I went to church with
my family. Another day, I accompanied my husband to the Market. These
little outings really knocked me on my butt. I would come home and be
exhausted! Each day I felt stronger though. Getting up from sitting, or
laying down too long, I feel like I was 80. I had to take a few steps
before I was able to get going. It is really hard laying on your back,
and not really being able to turn, or sleep really comfortably.
I
feel much better being at home. I feel like I am more relaxed. I am
able to see my kids and husband, and that was calming for me. My kids
are older and don't need me for the day-to-day stuff, but they still
like to come talk to me about stuff going on in their lives. That gives
me comfort as well as encouragement to get well quickly.
Some things that I quickly realized;
1) I would not have been able to do this without the help of a VERY supportive husband and family.
2) I would not have been able to have all this done if I had small children.
3) I would have made a bunch of pre-made meals for the freezer for the time that I was away. Even
though
I have taught my family how to make things, they seemed helpless
without me there. Once I was home, I was able to be
mommy-from-the-sidelines. I was able to guide them, and not let them
give up and eat out.
4) I wish I would have gotten a
grasper-thingy. Those "arm-extenders" to pick things up off the floor so
that I would not have to rely on someone to pick up my chapstick, or
sock, etc.
well, that is pretty much it right now. I
am still getting better and stronger daily. Excited to see the results,
but right now I still am in disbelief and still pretty swollen.
Continue to follow me on my journey!
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